DEAR ASHLEY
Your questions. My answers. Straight to your inbox.

Write to Dear Ashley — your judgment-free inbox for honest perspective, hard truths, and a little humor.
I read every submission myself (yes, really — not a VA, not AI) and reply personally with a short, no-BS take.
Because sometimes all you need is an outside perspective from someone who will (and isn't afraid to) tell you like it is (kindly, of course 😂)
So, what kinds of things can I ask you, Ashley? So glad you asked!
Here are just a few examples:
✓ “My mom still treats me like I’m 12. I’m 34. Wtf do I do about this?”
✓ “My boss says I ‘take things too personally.’ Am I the problem or are they just rude?”
✓ “I finally got what I wanted and now I’m… weirdly underwhelmed? Why?”
✓ “My coworker overshares about their life and I can’t escape. How do I get out of these conversations alive?”
✓ “I want to make a big change but I’m scared I’ll regret it. How do I know if it’s fear or intuition?”
Feel free to write as much (or as little) as you want — these are just examples to get you started. And I'm sure by now you're wondering... but yes — this is completely FREE. You're welcome.
You’ll get a quick, thoughtful response right in your inbox — and maybe a few things you didn’t want to admit, but needed to hear 👀